Finding my New New
April 5, 2024
Writer: Bella Goldberg
Editor: Anna Pierson
Throughout my entire life, dance dominated my schedule. In high school, I practiced with my dance team three days a week for three hours, and at my dance studio, I was there almost daily for two-hour sessions. On top of that, I had to juggle homework and studying and occasionally squeezed in a brief, 10-minute nap just to get through my day. This left me with virtually no free time. I was aware that this non-stop pace and lack of leisure wouldn't last forever, but I was unprepared for how to fill the gap that would eventually appear in my life when it ended.
After settling into college, I found myself at a loss with the newfound abundance of free time I had just acquired. I was disoriented, constantly feeling like I had to avoid repetition. I knew that adapting to college life was a challenging process, but the absence of something I loved, dancing, made this transition even more difficult.
Obviously, I am aware that this is not a unique experience, and many others may find themselves in a similar position.
I would like to offer a few things that have helped me make the most out of the additional hours that are now at my disposal:
Reading
Discovering a captivating book that makes it nearly impossible to stop reading. In my first semester, I set a personal goal of completing 5 books. This challenge not only served as an engaging pastime but also fostered a sense of accomplishment as I finished each book.
Doing work with friends
Setting time aside each day to do work with my friends at various places became a practice that I embraced. This routine offered a refreshing change of environment but also promoted productivity.
Going to the gym with friends
One of my closest friends and I find it challenging to meet up during the week. However, we've discovered that hitting the gym together offers us the perfect opportunity to catch up.
Watching new show series
While in high school I never got the chance to indulge in the iconic tv series that everyone was talking about like “One tree Hill” or “How I met your mother”. Now, I have taken advantage of this time and used it to get “cultured” in these 2000 classics. My absolute favorite is “The OC”.
Now that I am no longer consumed by an activity that dominated much of my childhood, I now have the opportunity to pursue new interests and discover different facets of my personality.
